What’s More Important: A Marriage or a Career?
When Martha Stewart was asked whether a marriage or a career matters more, her response was simple: “I don’t know.”
And she’s not alone in feeling that way. Many of us struggle with this question as we juggle work ambitions and personal connections. But what if it isn’t about choosing one over the other? What if you could create a fulfilling life where both your career and your marriage thrive together?
As a relationship coach, I see this dilemma come up frequently. Partners can feel like they’re on opposite sides of a tug-of-war, with career goals pulling one way and the relationship pulling another. But here’s the truth: it doesn’t have to be this way. The same qualities that make you excel in your career—like communication, problem-solving, and resilience—can also help you build a thriving relationship.
In my coaching practice, I guide couples to:
Define Success Together: What does success look like for you as a couple? Aligning your visions for the future ensures your relationship supports both personal and professional aspirations.
Prioritize What Matters: Time is precious, and relationships can’t be placed on hold until the “right moment.” Small, intentional efforts to connect can lead to big results.
Leverage Your Strengths: Whether it’s creativity, leadership, or adaptability, the skills that drive your career can also enrich your relationship.
The truth is, relationships and careers don’t have to compete—they can complement and amplify each other when approached with intention.
So, how are you balancing these priorities? If you’re not sure where to start, let’s talk. Together, we can create a plan to help both your relationship and your career thrive.
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