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Feeling Disconnected in Love, Intimacy, or Sex?

Maybe you're trapped in a cycle of the same arguments, unmet desires, or emotional distance—or perhaps sex has become an afterthought, leaving you wondering if intimacy can ever be rekindled.

The truth? Fulfillment in love and sex isn’t just for the lucky few. It’s something you can cultivate—whether you're looking to deepen intimacy, navigate a major relationship shift, or finally break free from the patterns holding you back.

I help individuals and couples do exactly that.

More about me…

I believe that sex is the beating heart of all great relationships—and great relationships, in turn, are the foundation for the best sex. My work bridges the gap between science and spirituality, using tools from Psychotherapy, Parts Work, Tantra, and many others. This blend creates a transformative space where healing and self-discovery meet.

Whether you’re reconnecting with your partner, looking to change old relationship dynamics, or searching for clarity during a separation, I guide you to find the balance between love, intimacy, and authenticity. I specialise in supporting couples facing a variety of challenges, from frequent arguments to impending separation. My goal is to guide them in rediscovering their deep connection and enhancing their intimacy, should that be their desire.

Many individuals find themselves in situations where intimacy has diminished, and the prospect of sexual connections may feel daunting or distant. It’s important to recognise that sex is 100% achievable if all parties genuinely desire it. Open communication, understanding, and a shared willingness to explore intimacy can pave the way for renewed connections. Acknowledging each person's needs and desires is key to moving towards a fulfilling sexual relationship, ensuring that all involved feel safe and valued in the process.

My 5 C's Methodology

Every journey with me is grounded in my signature 5 C’s:

  • Choice: Truly choose the relationship and address what might be holding you back.

  • Clarity: Understand your desires, boundaries, and deeper needs.

  • Communication: Learn how to express yourself openly and effectively.

  • Connection: Rebuild intimacy and strengthen emotional bonds.

  • Consent: Explore your sexuality and relationship dynamics with openness.

Who I Work With

Inclusivity is at the heart of what I do. I have deep experience working with:

  • Non ‘Cis-Het’ Couples

  • Polyamorous relationships

  • LGBTQIA+ clients

  • Couples from all walks of life including the swing community

No matter your gender, orientation, or relationship structure, I offer a safe, judgment-free space where you can explore what truly matters to you.

What Happens When Relationships End?

Not every relationship is meant to last forever—and that’s okay.

While my work often helps couples stay together and thrive, I also support those who need a graceful, respectful transition. If separation is the best path forward, I’ll help you navigate it with clarity and emotional closure.

A Little About Me

I’m a queer woman with a lifelong passion for understanding love, connection, and intimacy.

My journey combines academic expertise and lived experience, blending science-backed practices with the spiritual tools that transform relationships.

When I’m not coaching, you’ll find me:

  • Experimenting in the kitchen (usually with a glass of red in hand!)

  • Walking my dogs and riding horses

  • Dreaming of my next trip to Tuscany

What’s Next?

Your dream relationship and sex life is closer than you think.
Let’s explore what’s possible together—whether that’s reigniting a spark, creating deeper intimacy, or navigating the transitions life brings.

Book your free discovery call today and take the first step towards creating the love life you deserve.

Sex & Relationship Coach Cherish, a 32 year old white woman wears a black top with pink and yellow flowery trousers on, sits on a green velvet chaise lounge and smiles towards the camera in a relaxed sitted, leaning position.
  • I am a certified VITA coach, which means I am trauma informed, have a deep understanding of scientific, spiritual and tantric practices. The coaching I perform takes elements from lots of methodology, like Parts work, shadow work, Imago theory and psychotherapy.

  • All coaching sessions are online, in some rare occasions it might be supportive for us to have a session in person, which we can organise separately. You can also catch me at pride events running workshops in the UK.

  • Confidentiality is of utmost importance. All discussions and information shared during sessions are treated with the highest level of privacy and respect. Not only I not discuss anything with you outside of our sessions, I will also assume we don’t know each other outside of our sessions, unless you would like us to.